Karim's Heart Surgery
Tuesday,
April 1, 2008 Weeping With Those Who WeepFiled
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I have no
pictures to show you of the past week's events other than the ones I
can paint with my words..... yet words will not convey what the past
week has held. I will share with you some of my experiences and
impressions about them as best I can. If I can make one overarching
comment about it, I will say that our God is the God of ALL, in every
way, in all of the joys and all of the sorrows. As
you know, Karim did not survive the doctors' third attempt at heart
surgery. When we found out this news, we were stunned but immediately
began to do everything we could to help Karim's mother, and to deal with the
many details involved in moving the body. She was hysterical in her
grief. I was so thankful I was not there alone, but had Keleigh and
Alex to help - it took all of us to manage everything happening - and
that our Kurdish translator could speak the heart language of this
mourning woman and help her understand, release her grief, and yet keep
a bit of control over her display of emotions. We
went back to Haifa where Pastor Philip and his congregation had met
Karim and his mother when they'd arrived, and who Karim's mom had
called often, including earlier that day before Karim's surgery. At
this point in time however, there was only bitter grief in her heart,
and she was not able to receive any consolation from anyone. The
mothers with whom she'd travelled from Iraq and Amman into Israel were
all reminders of her emptiness since their children were still living
and hers was not. One of the mothers came espcially to comfort her, but
she sent her away, even cursing her in her blind grief. Since it was
impossible for the women to share an apartment under these
conditions, it was a blessing that the family in the adjacent building,
with whom Karim's mother had become friends before Karim was moved to Tel
Aviv, invited her to their home for the night. She seemed calmed there,
although she was inconsolable. We left her there after seeing that she
had someone to sit with her through the night, and from whom she would receive comfort, and we drove back to Jerusalem. After
some much-needed sleep, we all worked together on how to plan the
travel back to Iraq. There were so many details to be worked out in all
three countries involved, and it took many calls and lots of teamwork
to manage them. Again I praise God for His body of brothers and sisters
connected by our love for Him. I prepared to go back to Haifa to be the
escort to Amman, and left in late afternoon on the bus. Pastor Philip,
his wife and one of their sons met me at the bus station. We went
straight to the apartment where Karim's mother was staying, and when
she saw me, Philip and I became a target for the anger of her
disappointment. We all talked with her and settled her with prayer, and
it was decided that it would not be helpful for me to stay with her
that night since the family she was with wanted to continue to have her
in their home. God provided me the opportunity to stay with Pastor
Philip's family instead. When we left Karim's mother, we went across to the apartment where Lozan and Kale are
staying. It was my first opportunity to meet these families , and I was
struck by the contrast of the situations and circumstances I was
experiencing. God was present and aware of every detail ... I began to
hear Romans 11:33-36 going through my head:
Oh, the depth of the riches
of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments,and
his paths beyond tracing out! Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or
who has been his counselor? Who has ever given to God, that God should
repay him? For from him and through him and to him are all things.
Although sad about Karim's death, and grieving with his mother, here in
this apartment one of the mothers went to get some worship songbooks so
we could sing together in praise to the Lord. She was rightly
expressing her thanksgiving for her daughter's successful surgery.
After the excruciatingly intense and painful events of the previous
days, this was such an encouragement to me. It
was decided that since my presence had caused Karim's mother to have such
a strong reaction the night before, I would accompany Kale and Lozan to
their hospital check-ups on Thursday morning. As I went with Pastor
Philip and these ladies and daughters, I had another blessing in the
midst of the struggles of the week - I got to see Sana again! She and
her mother came into the waiting room for Sana's tests after dismissal,
and we were all delighted to see one another. After just a little while
it was time for me to go to the apartment and join Karim's mom as we
began what I have called the long funeral procession home. We had
gotten all the paperwork done so that the body could leave Israel and
enter Jordan, and were meeting the ambulance at the crossing. I knew
this would be a very difficult time of "reunion," and wondered if
there would be a repeat of the violent grief shown at the hospital.
When she understood that it was time to go, and that Karim would be
waiting for us at the border, she left the home of her friends without
a fuss, throuhg great physical effort because of her sadness. The rest
of our trip was filled with weeping and mourning songs.... and we wept
with her along the way as she expressed her broken heart. When
we arrived at the border, everything had been done to help us get
through as easily as possible. I am so thankful for the relationships
we have on both sides now which allowed the maximum amount of
compassion to be shown to this woman in her hour of need. The
authorities made the decision to allow the transfer of the body within
the border of Israel, so it was in the back of the ambulance that she
was reunited with her son's body. Although I had been concerned that
she would collapse again, she instead was comforted by being there with
him. We rode together up to Amman; Karim's mother and his body,
Keleigh, Fred and me, and a Red Crescent driver and assistant. Since
all of our usual accommodations in Amman were filled with patients
awaiting transfer to Israel, or going home after successful surgery, we
did not have a plan for where we might stay, but knew that God did have
a place for us. Our planning had to be spontaneous based on the legal
issues involving moving the body, so we continued turning to God with
our requests and trusted Him to work. We were reminded of a contact
we'd made just a few days before who had connections in Amman, and
asked him about a place to stay. After only a few hours we were blessed
with a lovely apartment and two new friends in Christ who opened their
home to us when we arrived on Thursday evening.
Because there
are no flights from Amman on Friday, the sabbath there, we had a little
extra time for the details of travel into Iraq, yet the sabbath also
meant that government offices were closed. We again didn't know how God
would work things together, but found that the network of
officials needed in such circumstances were willing to help us as much
as possible even on the sabbath, and we were hopeful that we
could indeed fly out on Saturday morning to Iraq. Karim's mother rested on
Friday while we handled the details needed and purchased a ticket for
my travel after it was decided I would be the one to accompany her
home. Her prior anger expressed toward me evaporated as her grieving
process continued, and she didn't want me out of her sight. It took all
three of the Shevet volunteers on the ground to manage everything, and
our hosts made us feel at home throughout the process, which was a
blessing. On
Saturday morning, Diyka Karim
seemed to enter a different phase of grief as she prepared to go home.
She was more subdued and was weeping instead of wailing. When we
arrived at the airport, as soon as we entered the
terminal to await the flight, God blessed us with a family sitting
beside Karim's mother
who spoke English and were going to the same city we were. God reminded
me of the many times we'd brought mothers and children to the airport
and found families for them to talk with and be looked out for as they
returned to their respective cities.... and now He was doing the same
for us as we were the ones flying and needing help. What a wonderful
Lord we serve! Little did I realize how vital the man's help would be.
He translated and even accompanied the
airport officials once we arrived in Iraq to help with the release of
the body there. His wife was able to be a special comfort to Karim's
mother as I needed to focus on some of the details of travelling this
final leg of the journey, with Keleigh and Fred's assistance. Truly,
without teamwork and all those God brought alongside us, we could not
have done all that was required. But our God is a defender of the widow
and near to the brokenhearted, and helped us all the way. After
a flight punctuated by mourning songs on the plane, and the
compassionate assistance of the airline staff, we arrived at our
city. The family God brought alongside remained with me and Karim's mother
until the body was cleared to leave the airport grounds and be turned
over to the family. It was at that time that the family ran towards the
airport vehicle and surrounded the casket with weeping and wailing, and
I was quickly escorted away to join some of our connections here who
are my hosts. It was here that I experienced another of the extreme
contrasts of the week... leaving a place of heavy mourning which
surrounded that vehicle, and stepping into a group of encouragers who
were there to provide for and comfort me, while praise music filled
their vehicle. Truly our God is the God of all. My
host here went to the funeral in Karim's family's city on Sunday. His
body was buried immediately upon arrival there, but the funeral itself
is still ongoing, lasting for three days. I have had them on my heart
continuously, and am thankful for every prayer that has been spoken for
them, and for us as we've ministered to them. Even in the intensity of
the past week, God has blessed me greatly in this experience. I will
share the many ways He has also allowed me to rejoice with those who
rejoice, in a separate blog. Thank you for all of your
prayers.
11:00 pm
Tuesday March 25, 2008 Karim Died TodayFiled
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The
day
started around 3:30 am for Donna. She called me around 4:00 am to let
me
know Karim might not make it through the latest resuscitation. So I
went to the hospital and met up with a very tired, but strong in
character, Donna Petrel. She had about two hours of sleep that night on
a waiting room couch. Donna and Karim's mother were in the conversation
room, which is the
room where they go to have difficult conversations about their loved
ones. There are pictures of children all over the walls; some of them
success stories, others not. The doctors take them there. The
mother hadn't eaten and pretty much had not slept in several days. She
had small naps here and there.
When I got there,
Karim had stabilized a
little bit. The blood pressure had quit dropping, unlike hours before
when the ICU staff thought it was the end. I went in to see Karim at
his bedside and I looked around at the medication that was being given
to him. At one point Donna counted all the infusions and there were at
least 12. For instance, one of the infusions was a giant needle of
adrenalin. To have a perspective on Karim's mother, you may have to
have lost someone yourself. She had lost her husband due to the harsh
reign of Saddam Hussein, and was now facing the perspective of losing
her youngest son, through the reign of heart disease. She does not
grieve quietly. For her and culturally, the way that she processes
anxiety is one that manifests itself through flailing arms,
grabbing people suddenly, shrieking, and kissing the Quran and
caressing her son on the table. To be very fair to her, it's part of
her personality and part of the culture to have very dramatic outward
expressions of worry and grief. In her country, this would be expected
of her.
I felt at one point that the doctors were
saying that the
condition was not changing. It was not hopeful but they were going to
continue giving him these medications. I left for a period of time to
run some errands in Tel Aviv and received a very encouraging phone call
from Donna announcing that they had decided to do a heroic surgery for
him. It means a last-ditch effort at trying to save him. The risk was
off-the-charts high. The only other option was to surely watch him die
on all these medications. Opening a closed artery could have begun to
heal his heart. We were all hopeful. We shared with the entire Shevet
team the news of this ray of light.
Preparation for
the surgery was
going to last as long as the surgery itself. They actually brought him
in an ambulance from the ICU to the operating theatre, which wasn't
far, but they had to do this in order to have all his medications with
him. The ambulance driver did a double-take when he saw all the
medications.
The
operation began, and about an hour and half into it, around 3:45,
Keleigh called to say that he had died during the procedure. The doctor
came out to try to share what
happened and the mother began to be inconsolable. It took a crew of
people to try to escort her out of the public area in order to try to
calm her down. Donna, Keleigh, Alex and the loving translator Suzan
took
five or six hours to do so. There were periods of quiet, there were
lulls.
We've
taken Karim's mother to spend the night in Haifa, and are now here in
the car discussing how to explain this to you and to the
readers. The most obvious thing is that God is in control no matter
what we see. Most of our prayer time in the car was about trusting in
the Lord. Two songs that came to mind were: How Great Is Our God, and
Blessed Be Your Name. So here we
are trusting God on the way home from Haifa, where the believers there
need prayer trying to console her. Tomorrow
we'll be bringing the body by ambulance to the Jordanian border, and it
will be
met by another vehicle on the Jordan side, and then transported up to
Amman.
Thursday morning Karim's mother will board a plane with the casket and
fly home. It is difficult to be in this
place, but God has always called us to be in
the middle of others' sufferings.
Tuesday,
March 25, 2008 Karim Having Surgery at
Noon TodayFiled
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I've
just spoken with Donna on the phone. (Donna spent the night caring for
Karim's mother and praying at Karim's bedside.) Donna says that Karim
will have another surgery at noon today, Israel time. The doctor
performed an echocardiogram today, and found that one artery between
the atria of the heart is not large enough. Though the surgeon has
already enlarged it once, he wants to try again, in an attempt to
relieve pressure from the other side of the heart.
Donna
asks
that we pray fervently not only for Karim's surgery, but for Karim's
mother. After a hellish night including four hours in the emergency
room, Karim's mother is being treated for a urinary tract infection and
nausea. And her emotions are "maxxed out."
Rules on
picture-taking are strict, and Donna feels it would not be appropriate
or respectful to photograph Karim in his current condition.
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Monday,
March 24, 2008 Karim Stable,
Kurdish Angel AppearsFiled
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Because of
Karim’s critical condition the Shevet team is attempting
to provide someone to be with his mother around the
clock. Last
night I stayed with her. In one way I feel a prayer has been
answered. About an hour after I arrived last night I was
sitting in the waiting room with Karim’s mother when all of a
sudden a man (a Kurdish Jew?) overheard her speaking on the phone in
Kurdish. He asked her in Kurdish if she was the mother of
Karim and she said “yes!” Immediately the two
engaged in conversation. Tears of joy filled her eyes as she
was able to finally communicate with someone her age. While
he was visiting he was able to speak with her family in Iraq and give
them an update. Today that same man brought his wife and
daughter up to the hospital for another visit. They are a
wonderful family who has taken on part of the responsibility of caring
for her. Praise God for this blessing! Donna
has taken the night shift this evening. Please pray for
her. She will be sleeping at the hospital comforting
Karim’s mother. I recently called her for an update
and she informed me that she is currently in the emergency room with
Karim’s mother. She is being treated for
dehydration and possibly some type of kidney or stomach
problem. She was going in for x-rays as we were getting off
of the phone. It is not only her health that is becoming a
problem but also her mental state. Today she sat on the floor
at Karim’s bedside for hours praying, chanting and
crying. She is also without sleep. As
for Karim, his circumstances have not changed. He remains in
a relatively stable state. There was never a need for
resuscitation today although his heart remains weak and his blood
pressure is very low. I would like to encourage everyone to
continue to pray. If this child lives it will be because we
as a body of believers have requested this of
God.
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Sunday,
March 23, 2008 Desperate LoveFiled
by  Dear
ones, I hope not to sound melodramatic in today's blog, but instead to
try to bring you inside the work of Shevet Achim as we experience it
with all of our human limitations and dependency on God's mighty
strength. It is my prayer that it will spur your prayers. If
it was humanly possible to somehow produce the miracle of saving the
life of one's child, every parent faced with the situation of Karim's
mother would do so. I spent the last 24 hours watching her act out of
desperate love to find such a miracle in an intensely helpless
situation. Besides being emotionally drained and exhausted, she is
unable to eat or drink and has hardly slept, according to the nurses,
so she is physically exhausted too. It was in this condition that she
received the news yesterday afternoon through our Kurdish translators
that her son's heart was only being kept beating with machines and
medicines and that perhaps a transplant was the only hope. From that
point on she began calling everyone she could to have us tell them over
and over "everything the doctor said." She would also call others and
hand the phone to the medical staff so they could tell her the same
news over and over again. It was difficult to settle her down long
enough to know whether she was beginning to understand, because she
would walk away and make another call and hand someone the phone. These
dear translators did a wonderful job trying to explain, encourage and
calm Karim's mother. Despite everyone's efforts she was
comfortless; many times through the night I wondered what my reactions
would be if I were dealing with the same trauma. I
continually offered her food and drink for some strength, and she
continually refused...wanting only to be with Karim. My coworker
Keleigh's company and attention were a sort of anchor to her in the
afternoon, because they had formed a relationship in the past weeks,
but when she left, Karim's mother decided I was a reasonable substitute
to help. After a few hours she began to pull me with her wherever she
went; when she prayed for Karim, I prayed for them both. I let her know
this is what I was doing, and it seemed to settle her a little.
Sometimes she would sit beside me in the waiting room and then lay her
head over in my lap and moan...and I prayed the Lord's presence would
minister to her broken heart. I tried to get her to sleep in the
hospital's room for parents, but she refused. She eventually posted me
in the waiting room and went inside to sit with Karim around midnight,
but came out a little later to pull me in, post me by his bed, and
disappear. I was not sure where she went, but after an hour, hoped she
was sleeping. I went out and found her indeed asleep, apparently
settled because her son was not alone in the ICU. She slept for about
five hours, and came into the room shortly after sunrise this morning.
I
had been watching daylight appear in a reflection of a hospital window,
remembering today all over the world many people were celebrating
Resurrection Sunday. I thanked God that here in Israel today the
celebration of the defeat of Haman in the Esther story, and the defeat
of sin by the sacrifice of Jesus, the perfect Lamb of God, were being
celebrated on the same day. I prayed that we would see the miraculous
manifestation of God's salvation demonstrated in the restoration of
Karim's body by God's life-giving touch. I continue to believe for it
at this hour.
 As
doctors began their early morning rounds, she nudged me each time to
talk with them, though I assured her when they finished talking among
themselves I would do so. After the surgeon came in he surprised me by
saying he was a little optimistic that although Karim was very
critical, he might have a 50-50 chance to recover, and since he had
been stable for the past 24 hours, they would try to close the chest
either today or tomorrow pending his continued stability. Then it would
be a waiting period to see if his body could become strong again and
heal, a period which would take probably at least two weeks. After I
spoke with the translators about this to pass the news on, the mother's
phone rang, and she left the room for a few minutes. She came back in
and took my hand and walked me to the surgeon's office, apparently
convinced that another surgery would be what would help Karim. The
doctor -- all of the staff -- was kind and gentle and patient with this
dear mother as she called the translators and had several
conversations. The fact there was not a surgery scheduled really upset
her, although in reality we'd gotten a tiny glimmer of hope in the
morning's report.
As we re-entered the ICU we
found a screen
in front of Karim's room and were told we must leave immediately, for
he was being resuscitated again. It became a momentary challenge to
keep her out of the room, but she suddenly dropped to the floor outside
and began to cry out again to God for the life of her son. She prayed
and sang prayers and recited the names of God on her prayer beads as
she focused her attention on getting God's attention. Several times she
arose to try to go in, and on one of those occasions a doctor came and
told me that Karim could die at any moment. As I called Alex in our
Jerusalem office to prepare him for this possibility and he took the
time to pray, he made a statement which was stabilizing for me of God's
total power in such times, so that we can only stand back and let Him
be God even when we do not understand His ways. Simultaneously Karim's
mother was back on the floor, and I joined her there as she began to
thank God even in her desperation. She noted who He is, and called out
for her son's life. I thought on the reality that He is the God who
hears, and the God who knows everything which is in every heart. After
a short time, Karim's mother opened the door again and began
to go
inside without hesitation. I admit I was braced for the worst, but
instead found Karim in stable condition again on his bed and the ICU
calm. In the hours that followed I spoke with the nurses on duty and a
few of the doctors who said that this event was a big set-back, and
that they of course could not consider closing the chest now. We
learned later in the afternoon that one of Karim's kidneys has failed
and that his liver is beginning to fail as well. We continue to pray
for the same power that raised Jesus from the grave to raise Karim to
life and health, for God's great glory. Karim's
mother
needs intense prayer, as do we, as those who are beside her at this
time. Please join us in looking to God for what only He can do for
Karim, for his mother, and for us. We are keeping volunteers with this
dear woman round the clock to provide the Lord to a chance to use us to
comfort and strengthen her. We will continue to inform you about what
is happening.
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Shabbat,
March 22, 2008 Surgeon Sees Transplant as
Only OptionFiled
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The doctors
came to Shevet worker Keleigh Glisson this warm Shabbat afternoon with
a new assessment from the surgeon about Karim's condition. At
this point Tel Hashomer's pediatric surgeon is saying that Karim needs
a heart transplant. He continued by saying that Karim is a
poor candidate to be put on a list for a transplant because of his
tourist status and other medical conditions such as seizures and renal
problems.
Strong medications are the
only thing keeping his heart functioning at this point. When
the medical team tries to wean him off the medications the right side
of his heart collapses and he enters cardiac failure. The ICU
doctor remarked that he has not seen patients recover from this.
Friends,
let us pray our good Lord will give an example of his power to this ICU
doctor by bringing our dear friend Karim back from this
brink. Also pray for the Shevet team here as we look to
Israeli officials for help with the heart transplant issue and offer
Karim's mother the comfort of our Lord.
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Friday,
March 21, 2008 Karim Made It Through the
NightFiled
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Last
night Karim’s mother was very emotional. She told us she had
a
feeling that God was going to take her child. This morning she seemed
to be doing better. Doctors reiterated that Karim's condition is very
serious and that we could lose him at any moment. As you can see from
the pictures, Karim hardly looks like the same boy who went into
surgery over a week ago.
The good news is that he
made it
through the night. His nurse informed me that he probably will not show
any signs of improvement for at least a few days; all they are looking
for at this point is for Karim to stay alive. We
have heard of so many people all over the world praying for Karim. I
really believe this is what has sustained his life thus far. Please
continue to pray! Pray that Karim would immediately begin to show signs
of improvement. Pray for wisdom for us--the Shevet team--as we try to
provide continual comfort to Karim's mother during this difficult time. Click
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Thursday,
March 20, 2008 Karim Resuscitated After
Cardiac ArrestFiled
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We visited
Karim in the hospital today to help comfort his mother. Karim
is
having a difficult time recuperating after his surgery. His
blood pressure is dangerously low and his heart is having a hard time
pumping his blood after the surgery. One of the Iraqi mothers
who speaks Kurdish was with us, and was doing her best to comfort
Karim's mother.
Shortly after we arrived Karim went
into
cardiac arrest and had to be resuscitated. One of the doctors
leaving several hours later seemed to say that Karim was stable, but
the look on his face told a different story, and we did not
hear anything from the doctors after that.
We did
our best to tell the mother that her son was
going through a difficult time without telling her how grave the
situation was, but the mother's intuition had her on the floor in
tears,
praying that her son would be restored.
Please pray
that
Karim is able to make a full recovery. He is in a big fight right
now. Pray also for the health and comfort of his
mother who is so alone at the hospital--no one there speaks her
language and the other mothers have their own children to
worry about as
well.
We have no new pictures to include this
time, because we were not even allowed to enter the ICU. But by
clicking the play arrow below you may see a brief video of the mother's
bedside vigil taken late Wednesday night.
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Wednesday,
March 19, 2008 Second Emergency Surgery
TonightFiled
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arrived in Israel from Iraq, doctors found his heart defect so complex
that he was referred to Tel HaShomer, Israel’s largest
hospital. Since his heart surgery last Monday
they’ve been fighting to stabilize him, and tonight he was
rushed back to the OR for a second emergency surgery.
Karim’s
mother pulled back his blanket when I visited tonight after the
surgery. I think she wants to share with us the trauma of
seeing her beloved son between life and death, his chest left open in
case doctors have to quickly go back in. Please let this
encourage us to pray for Karim and his mother.
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Monday,
March 17, 2008 Shifting Between Stable and
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We
were able to speak with Karim's doctors yesterday. They informed us
that his
condition is continually shifting from stable to unstable. Karim's heart is not strong
enough to pump
blood to his entire body and is beating irregularly. In
addition, he has acquired some type of
infection and fluid in his lungs. The
doctors have asked the head of cardiology if there is anything more
that can be
done to help improve his condition, but they were informed that all has
been
done.
Karim's
mother has been comforted by another mother from Gaza whose child is
also in the
hospital; however, that mother is scheduled to return to Gaza today,
leaving
Karim's mother all alone. Yesterday
we
were able to spend a few hours with her, but she was still very upset
when we
left. Please
continue to pray for Karim's overall recovery and his mother's
isolation. Pray that God would send someone to comfort
her and help her carry this burden.
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Tuesday, March 11, 2008 Karim in Fairly Stable
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Today
we were able to visit Karim and his mother at the hospital, accompanied
by an interpreter. Karim remains in the ICU in a fairly stable
condition. The doctors informed us that they were able to repair the
hole in his heart and move a valve in order to help correct the
enlarged upper right chamber of his heart.
Karim's
mother wanted
to know why many of the other children in the ICU were awake already.
The doctors explained to her that Karim’s surgery was more
complicated than most. His blood pressure remains very low so they are
keeping him sedated, but they will continue to assess his situation in
order to determine the appropriate time to reduce the sedation.
Please
pray that Karim’s blood pressure will grow stronger and for
his
overall recovery. Also pray for his mother’s loneliness and
isolation during this time.Click
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Monday, March 10, 2008 Today's Surgery Long But
SuccessfulFiled
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Karim’s
surgery took place today and ended up taking longer than expected. He
went into surgery at 8:30 a.m. and we didn’t hear anything
from
the doctors until around 2:00 p.m. The doctors informed us that the
operation was successful, but because Tel HaShomer Hospital
isn’t
a hospital that Shevet Achim normally works with, the doctors were
reluctant to give any details on the success of the surgery. In
addition, cameras were not allowed in the ICU. Hopefully tomorrow we
will have a better understanding of Karim’s circumstances and
we
will be able to take some photos.
Karim’s
mother (pictured
above on the left side of the photo) only speaks Kurdish, which was a
bit of an obstacle. Today two other mothers who spoke both Kurdish and
English were able to comfort her during the operation and do some
translating once we were able to speak to the doctors.
 Please
pray for Karim to remain in stable condition throughout the night and
for his overall recovery. Also pray for his mother, who feels isolated
due to the language barrier and continues to be very worried about her
son.
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Sunday,
March 9, 2008 In Good Spirits On Eve of
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Karim
is very excited about his surgery that is scheduled to take place
tomorrow (Monday, March 10, 2008). Today he was transferred from Haifa
to Tel HaShomer Hospital in Tel Aviv.
Today we spent
time with
him and his mother while awaiting one last echo before his surgery and
his admittance into the hospital. Both he and his mother seemed in very
good spirits, although the smile on his mother's face quickly turned to
tears once she heard the sound of her son's heartbeat
during the
echocardiogram. His mother is very scared and the language barrier no
doubt contributes to this. In addition, the doctors are unsure if his
surgery will be done in one operation or a series of operations. His
condition is very severe.
Please pray that the
doctors would
have wisdom in deciding how to handle Karim’s unique case,
that
his surgery will be successful. And pray for Karim’s mother
who
feels very alone during this scary time in a country where she is only
able to communicate with one or two people. Click
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Thursday,
February 28, 2008 Eager to Begin Treatment Filed
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Karim
was glad to see us on Tuesday, and was quite talkative. Only problem
is, I didn't understand what he was saying. Karim was glad to be able
to sit and talk to another male figure as he has been in the apartment
waiting for news on his surgery with all women and girls. Please pray
for Karim and his mom who is anxious to see the healing process begin.
We had an excellent opportunity to pray with Karim who said "yes" over
and over as we prayed. Today
we took Karim to hospital because he was complaining about chest pains
and difficulty breathing. After the doctors looked at him, they
prescribed some medication and sent him back to the apartment as they
continue to wait on the hospital to make the final arrangements
concerning his surgery. Karim was in good spirits but is biting at the
bit to begin his treatment so he can go back home.
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Tuesday,
February 12, 2008 First Echo Brings Laughs,
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Karim
sat timidly this morning awaiting his first echo in Israel.
The
pediatric cardiologist who invited Karim to Israel, Dr. Avraham Lorber,
introduced himself with a handshake and warm smile before bringing
Karim into the examination room. As
soon as
Dr. Lorber placed began trying to perform the echo Karim got a case of
the giggles. Lorber continually told him to be still, that he was a big
boy, and that this was not helping.
 Unfortunately
his laughter was
contagious and spread to Lorber and the staff. This of course
drew out the procedure but at least we were all laughing.  During
the echo we discovered that Karim has a large hole in the upper
ventricle of his heart. This prolonged condition has caused an
additional problem. Karim’s upper right chamber of
his
heart has been enlarged over the years due to the unchecked
hole.
This ventricle now makes up for 70% of Karim’s
heart. Karim will have a catheterization
tomorrow to
further explore the problem. What
originally was a
simple repair is now complicated by the enlarged chamber and the strain
it has put on the valves of the heart. Please pray that we all keep
laughing and see the joy of the Lord’s work amidst
difficulties
to come.
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Monday,
February 11, 2008 Crossing the Jordan River Filed
by
 Today
Karim and Kale started their
journey to Israel. We were blessed with perfect weather and enjoyed the
beautiful scenery of the Jordan valley as we made our way down from
Amman. Thankfully the one and a half hour drive went by quickly, and
before we knew it we were at the border. After getting our exit stamp
on the Jordan side, we sat on the benches waiting for the bus to carry
us over to Israel. Kale's and Karim's mothers were very hopeful for
their children's surgery, yet nervous about what lay ahead in the
coming days and weeks. I continued to reassure them that God was with
them and would carry them through a successful surgery and recovery.
Pray that the Lord would fill them with his peace. Once we were in
Israel, the time came for me to say good-bye and let Alex take them the
rest of the way. Even though they were disappointed that I wouldn't be
traveling the entire way with them, they were content to know that I'd
be waiting for their return
Alex
Pettett picks up the story:
 Karim's mother sat
quietly waiting for me to show. Today, Shevet's staff did a
family swap. We said goodbye to two Iraqi families who
successfully came through the heart program in Rambam hospital in Haifa
and we brought two more Iraqi families into Israel for surgeries in
Haifa. The transition happened at the Beit Shean border which
stands between Israel and Jordan. Though I do not
believe the border staffs read the blogs, I would like to especially
give thanks to today's duty manager. I will omit his real
name and call him Yosi (one of the most common names in
Israel). Though you do not see him featured in any pictures,
he is the artist who snapped the shot above of the new families and
myself in this blog. So, a big thanks to Yosi who constantly helps us
cut through the red tape and also offered soft words of assurance to
these new families today, "It's ok, we'll take care of
you in
Israel." Fourteen-year-old
Karim was dressed ready for a wedding. Though he and his
mother do not speak any Arabic (or English) they both have a soft,
encouraging smile. Karim sat next to me as we ascended from
the Jordan valley and made our way to the coastal city of
Haifa. As we passed new sites, sounds, and smells Karim kept
his face plastered to the window trying to take it all in.
Though quieted by being in such a new place, you could still tell he
felt he was on holiday.
We
arrived in Haifa at 6:30 PM and began unloading their light
belongings. Within minutes we were unpacked. Now
they await the arrival of pizza to give them some strength for the long
journey ahead. Initial tests begin tomorrow morning at 8AM.

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